do i know you?

 hi everypony,

i've been dealing with something that has annoyed me for some time now, but now another thing pushed it over the edge, and since i have no one to talk to about it in real life, i'm coming on here!

basically, my best friend (and basically the only person i hang out with and talk to outside of school), has recently started dating this guy. ignoring the part where a year ago i had a huge crush on him and specifically stopped liking him because he was mean to HER, they're together now and i don't have a big problem with that part.

my problem is that it's literally changing her and i's relationship?!

her and i have always been rough with each other, and joke a lot about things that could be considered hurtful, but we have clear boundaries and know the other one doesn't aim to hurt. today, we were texting about how she thinks her boyfriend's mom hates her, to which i replied, "yeah, it seems like she does"

totally normal, but then i get a reply of, "your not right."

at this point i'm like WOW why is she making a your/you're spelling mistake, because we've always clowned on people who did that (and lowkey said it was stupid if you're in highschool and don't do it correctly)

so i jokingly replied, "wow is being a girlfriend making you stupider?"

according to the next messages, her boyfriend had her phone and typed the "your wrong" message that i made fun of, and continued to type and say "it's not that deep, it isn't a formal email so why does it matter?"

whatever. like sure, you've literally called people stupid for doing that but when it's your own boyfriend suddenly your best friend is annoying and unreasonable.

she has also let him take her phone and reply to my insta stories (which i post to my close friends WITHOUT HIM ON IT)

she even texted and said he called one of my stories not funny and stupid, to which i replied "why would i give a fuck what your boyfriend thinks?" and she goes "okay why are you pressed?"

LOLLLL WHAT?? why are you letting this guy like be mean to me? he does not have the same bond we do with all the joking and stuff.

she also hangs out with him every day. i'm not joking. every day.

but when i ask her days in advance if she wants to go out and do something with me, she doesn't give me an answer because she "still needs to ask"

so you're able to see this boy every night but not your best friend? alright.

it's also like, if we're hanging out, i'm not on my phone texting, even when i was dating someone. she is constantlyyy texting him and if shes not it's, "broo why isn't he responding to meeee."

like okay i'll just leave now?

i just don't understand why she's letting this guy, even if he's very important to her, get in between everything we do? idek if i want to go out with her tomorrow because of this.

i feel like the asshole and i'm wondering if i'm too mean to her, but also she's the exact same way back to me and it's totally mutual??

idk. sorry for the long rant guys but i'm just so annoyed and don't know what to do.

- quote for the mood of course!

xoxo,

breakers